Last year we started doing "ChirsKinder" i.e drawing names and one adult buys for one adult. We all buys for kiddies. We put a cash limit on pressie. Worked very well except Mum has just admited that she didn't realise that it meant she would get one present!!!!
just waiting to hear who I have drawn this year!
We did ask wahwhatt people wanted and got a sub to Good Housekeeping mag which has been the BEST present!