Heehee, trick! it's driving me up the wall. Its a long story but basically I teach in a private school and the owners make it impossible for me to do my job. I also feel terribley guilty that i have very little involvement with dds school day. My dilemma is, that for where I live its a really good job and I wouldnt be likely to get another one. So if i jack it in and become a sahm again, which I loved by the way, dd will be out at school all day. i think I should listen to the voices.