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How would you react?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 21:49

if dh admitted shagging his step sister, this was the night before his dad's funeral and I was upstairs asleep after loads of booze, they were pissed too. I am shocked but not too upset

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Norash · 30/09/2005 22:09

So an affair is different from him having a one night stand with his step sister how?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:10

shit the sex means nothing it's the fact he told me

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auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:11

sounds like an arse!

Norash · 30/09/2005 22:11

So if he does it again it is fine, as long as he tells you is it?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:11

my dh is not an arse

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:12

not explained this so well I guess

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Norash · 30/09/2005 22:12

I am not trying to be rude, but if this does not bother you then what is the point of this thread?

Survey? I am confused.

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:14

the point of this thread is I can't tell anyone but I had to tell someone

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Mytwopenceworth · 30/09/2005 22:17

I don't understand. Mind if I ask a few questions?
Your dh slept with another woman a year ago yes?
He told you now - because he wanted to give you bad news - why did he want to give you bad news - did he want to upset you?

You are not upset about him sleeping with another woman - why don't you care?

Would you have prefered he didn't tell you?

Just seems so odd, well, sad really. from what I can gather from your posts - and I may be misunderstanding totally - He wanted to hurt you and you don't care that he stuck his dick into another woman, only that he told you.

I feel really sad for you both.

lockets · 30/09/2005 22:19

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hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:20

Good post, M2PW - SM, I feel very for you.

Lockets, I'd do the same. After castrating DH.

auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:21

I agree..this seems well wierd!
Any man that cheats on his wife is an arse! then tells her just to upset her a double arse!

RachD · 30/09/2005 22:29

He doesn't agree with your redundancy.
So he tells you this to..."lessen my blow" - thats not done out of sorrow, guilt, or love.
What was he trying to achieve ?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:29

I know this this wierd which is why I am posting

I am upset he shagged an another woman.

Yes it is ayear later but I DON'T HATE HIM

we all imagine it will never happen but it does

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auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:30

what do you want us to say?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:32

not sure really

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hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:33

Do you normally play hurting each other oneupmanship? Because that sounds like this is what it is

Norash · 30/09/2005 22:33

If a friend of yours was going through this what would you say to the?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:37

I don't know

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RachD · 30/09/2005 22:37

Hunkermunker, my thougths exactly, -one-up-man-ship- ?
Do you do this to eachother in the rest of your relationship ?

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scruffymum · 30/09/2005 22:38

no we are normally dead honest

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auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:38

still think he is an arse!

hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:40

How would he react if you had slept with someone in the same circumstances?

auntymandy · 30/09/2005 22:41

he would say he slept with 2!!

hunkermunker · 30/09/2005 22:41

Are you generally happy together?

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