My school reunion next Saturday- anyone been to one recently and have advice?

[sorrel]

It is 20 years since i left school( crikey) and the reunion is next week. what should i be prepared for? What should i wear? I am mad to even think about going? AAAAAAAAARGH

never been to one. have a nosy on friends reunited to get an idea what they are all up to?

I went to my 20 year reunion just after Christmas and it was fine. The women were very much the same as they were at school, but the men had really changed, especially the geeky ones who had all gained confidence and were suddenly really attractive and interesting. There wasn't as much reminiscing as I thought there would be and virtually no bragging about how well people had done. It was fascinating to see how far around the world the class had spread and how many unexpected events there had been in people's lives.

I have to warn you though that I seems to morph back into a 17 year old as the night wore on, and that's not at all attractive in a woman of my age.

I wore jeans and a t-shirt with trainers, and I didn't feel out of place (although I may have been the only on in trainers). Most of the women were wearing trousers and tops (some sparkly, some more office-y), a few wore understated evening dresses (short, not flouncy). A few of the men were in suits, but most were smart-casual.