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cheeky f**king sh*ts!! (sorry about the language)

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 17:56

Just had DD1's new bed delivered and there is kids playing outside and their ball hit the car a few times. Anyway Dh told them to be careful around the cars, and they then hit the deliverly driver's van, DH said to be careful again, and then they said 'well the cars shouldn't be there!!!' ITS A FUCKING DRIVE!!!!!!!

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Twiglett · 31/08/2005 17:56

catch the ball and stab it

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 17:58

Can't believe they said that, there is a fucking huge great playing field just 30 secs walk away!!

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 18:00

They said 'sorry' to the deliverly driver!! and DH said 'you will be when you get the bill if you damage them'

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 18:10

They are still kicking it against the car!!!

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fairyfly · 31/08/2005 18:26

Are you as angry as this thread seems, just walk away and take deep breaths

spagblog · 31/08/2005 18:48

It sounds like you live on our estate.
I can't think of a solution, but if you get one, will you tell me?

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 18:59

Yes I am angry!! I am pissed off with everyone in the street thinking they can do what they like and damage other peoples stuff. Its a mobility car and any damage has to be paid for by ME!!! So I have every right to be angry!! It was bloodly eggged either yesterday or last night!! I am sick of it here........ roll on december!!

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fairyfly · 31/08/2005 19:02

Have you shouted at them?

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 19:03

Yes!! They said the cars shouldn't be parked there!!!!

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Thomcat · 31/08/2005 19:05

Oh kids like that make me so sad.
I had to slam on my brakes the other day as 2 kids ran out in front of my car. It really scared me. I sat there mouth open at the shock of what nearly happened. I didn't do anything I was so shocked and as I looked at them they both stuck their fingers up at me and 1 shouted, 'f*k you b**h' and they ran off.

Very sad

fairyfly · 31/08/2005 19:08

Well don't shout at me but i think with kids, shouting will make them laugh at you and do it more. They don't like being told what to do or authority, if they say ooo sorry love and walk away they will get beaten up by their mates. If i was you i would speak to them on a level ( it might be too late if they know you now).

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 19:11

wasn't shouting at you ff, sorry!!! Just had enough of all this shit, Just got rid of apeman and co. and now the kids think its fine to do what they like......

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Thomcat · 31/08/2005 19:12

I have to say that I agree, no point in shouting, it's what they want. That's why I didn't shout at those kids who ran out in front of me, they would have just been abusive back.

Thomcat · 31/08/2005 19:14

It's better to say to them 'look guys, i know you have to play ball but please would you mind just making a bit of an effort to not hit the cars if you can help it, thank you.' If they tell you to f.off then just say 'ohh that makes me so sad that we can't be friends, have a nice night'. Then there is no pleasure for them in hitting your car. You've taken away the fun, the danger, the thrill etc.

fairyfly · 31/08/2005 19:15

I know people who have won by befriending the kids, got them to wash their car, cut the grass, then paid them, They are so impressed they start to behave as they want the money.

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 19:50

we didn't actually shout, we asked them to be careful of the cars. And then they said the 'cars shouldn't be there!!!' Thats what got me angry because it is a drive and the cars are allowed to be there. They are now playing knock down ginger.......

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EvesMama · 31/08/2005 20:13

deep breaths babe..it wont be long now

piffle · 31/08/2005 20:13

with any luck....

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 22:23

They knocked the door at 9:15PM!! My kids are sleeping at that time...... I know exactly who it is!! Because when they run across Apeman's parents front garden a light comes on!!!

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Amai · 31/08/2005 22:53

let kids play in the street. Dont be taken in by the adverts, cars are not the be all and end all. Have we lost sight of what life is all about.

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 22:58

No, you don't understand, I have had 4 months of hell, my neighbours have threatened me, imtimidated me, stolen from me, made my life hell. They are in prison now, and I just want a quiet life. I have 2 disbaled kids and the car is leased, any damage I have to pay for, if it was MINE I might be a bit more relaxed.
These kids used to stand outside and call my mum a bitch as she left the house when they were outside with the neighbours, My car was egged yesterday, and I had to clean it. I have had to clean it a few times now, because something has been spat on it, or thrown at it.
I called the police on my neighbours after they threatened to kill my husband, and now we are getting grief off everyone in the street. I have had ENOUGH!!!!

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sparklymieow · 31/08/2005 23:01

and if you had to pay £75 for every time you get a stratch or a dent, you would think differently!!!

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Amai · 31/08/2005 23:08

Point taken, move house?

misdee · 31/08/2005 23:09

are you angry?

spursmum · 31/08/2005 23:11

Keep up Amai she moves hopefully around october time

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