Good afternoon I’m sat here in tears. My child wants to live st their fathers ( under the hospital for high functioning autism)
He has everything here and also lots of 1-1 nice holidays etc. He goes to his dads currently 2/3 times a week.
He likes the freedom I think he lets him do what he wants. He’s not a very hands in dad at all and at times in the past seen him as an invonvienience.
He’s 11 years old. I’ve talked to him and we chatted and he agreed to stay but the next day I get a call when can his father collect his bed.
The problem is my mother and him have ailientated him against me. The things he says to us you simply know come from an adult. I can’t see away through this and so hurt.
He’s very, very mature not like a 11 year old at all.
Has anybody experienced this? Any advise would I would greatly appreciate. He’s very rude and yesterday I e planned I’m taking his phone. He has however rung up the mobile complaint and reported it lost.
Honestly I don’t know what to do no more he lies too which I hate.