i am 80% sure I don't wany anymore but will that 20% haunt me?

[Chatnel36]

I have one 2.5 year daughter and a 7 year old step daughter. We have been trying for another for over a year and it's not happening, I am turning 40 and think it's time to give up. I don't want to deal with the stresses of having 2 little ones into my 40's as I don't think I have the energy. 80% sure we are done but worried I may have regrets and it will be too late (too old). Anyone else in the same position? did you have regrets?

I'm In a slightly different position. I didn't want more until it was too late so we didn't try and now I want to but dh says we are too old and doesn't want to and I do feel regret .. that I didnt come to this conclusion earlier when dh could have bee persuaded but I didn't so hey ho

I do feel sad and I will always wonder what if but who knows it could have been a nightmare if we had

Good luck with your decision.. it's tough