...you are 100% sure that having an only is the right thing to do?
So glad I found this section I was beginning to feel that ds is the only only out there all our friends are on round 2 of babies and the pressure has in times felt huge.
ds is now 3.5 and we've tried for another for over a year. We now feel we want to move on to the next stage in our life and having another isn't going to feature in our future. I wasn't ever 100% sure on having another and felt I was doing it more for ds. I now realise that this isn't a good enough reason.
Anyway enough waffling I'm sure its the right thing for the 3 of us and our family does feel complete but there is just the smallest part of me that questions if we are doing the right thing. For those of you that made the decision not to have another did you ever waver?
Any thoughts would be appreciated. Reading a lot of the threads on here has certainly made me feel happier about the decision.
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neverright · 12/02/2011 20:49
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