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Which days should I send DS to nursery?

9 replies

Nurserryy · 20/02/2025 18:07

We need to put DS in nursery 2 days per week. We currently have all 5 days reserved as we didn’t know which days we’d need.

Option 1: Wednesday and Friday
Option 2: Wednesday and Thursday
Option 3: Thursday and Friday

Is it better going two days in a row?

Are some days busier than others (i know each nursery will be different)?

Do nurseries do similar activities on all days?

thanks in advance 😊

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TeenToTwenties · 20/02/2025 18:09

Wed and Thursday so if you take a long weekend you don't have to pay for a place you aren't using?

Icanneverthinkofausername · 20/02/2025 18:11

I'd go Wednesday and Friday,
My friend who works in a nursery advised us to do Mon and Thurs or Tues and Fri if we were only doing 2 days so that the gap in-between days from one week to the next wasn't so big

NebulousDog · 20/02/2025 18:15

It has probably changed a bit since I needed to care, but cottage/Centre-Parc style places tended to be Monday-Friday and Friday-Monday.

I chose nursery on Fridays in the vain hope DD would sleep in the car after a busy day if we were heading somewhere and Tuesdays as I could catch up on work/chores after family visits.

Also look at toddler clubs etc if that's what you want to do.

EightElectricEels · 20/02/2025 19:56

Personally I think it's better to keep the days together, it seemed an easier routine. Often the same children to make friends with and activities aren't usually repeated 2 days in a row.

However, having said that, I often wonder if a split week would be better when they are inevitably ill. They may miss a day but there's more chance they'll get better before their next session if there's a day in between.

LearningFromAll · 22/02/2025 16:27

Doing something for two days straight helps you get into a routine and process things better, so I say option 2 or 3.

Tumbleweed101 · 23/02/2025 09:39

How old is your child? If they are younger then the wed and Fri option would be best.

Tulipsandtoast · 23/02/2025 09:50

In my experience Fridays are quieter as people like the long weekends. There's often also more toddler groups and activities running on Fridays, in my area at least.

Antsinmypantsneedtodance · 23/02/2025 09:52

Wednesday and Thursday

Fridays quiet

Thete are friday bank holidays so you'll be paying for that day even though nursery is closed in most cases.

Mysterian · 23/02/2025 13:58

Fridays are quietest because people like to have long weekends. They tend to have a more relaxed vibe about them too. Mondays are next quietest.

I'd go for Thursday and Friday out of those.

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