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My 3 year old hates pre school

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Ella898 · 18/01/2018 13:20

Hi looking for some advice my 3 year old started pre school on the 2nd week now he does 2 half days and 2 full but he seems to really not like it.
He cries when we arrive then cries again when I pick him up they say he's fine when I'm
Not there but it makes me worry all day I feel awful about how he's feeling or if he's upset

Should I continue or reduce hours? Is it because it's just all new to him really don't know what to do for the best

Thanks everyone

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MayFayner · 18/01/2018 13:23

My 3yo started last September (he turned 3 a few weeks beforehand). The first 2 weeks were hard and he cried every morning. Then he just settled in and began to love it.

A bit of a regression going back after Christmas but nothing major. I would stick it out for the time being if I were you. Maybe consider just mornings, unless you need the childcare on the full days.

StormTreader · 18/01/2018 13:27

He cries when we arrive then cries again when I pick him up

Sounds like hes just not great at dealing with change and doesnt want to stop what hes doing, whether thats being with you or being at pre-school. Once he gets used to the idea that it doesnt mean "never seeing you/playing at school again" he'll probably settle in.

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