I am at the end of my Taylor. You couldn’t write this or believe it but my father-in-law has been saying his big break deal will happen next week then it doesn’t and it’s next week again. This great big deal. In the meantime we have subsidised him to pay the mortgage on his House and been paying it in £500 a month to pay the mortgage its now got to £27,000 I kid you not, before I said enough is enough, and he promised he will pay it back. This is five years ago now. in the meantime they have lost their house and are living with their son and wife. I found out today that my husband has paid another £900 to him and I think this is giving good money after bad and I am fuming. The mother is now in bad health query Alzheimer’s and the father is in poor Health too but still insisting his big deal will take off. It wont. what should I do? I’m fuming about near another thousand pound out of our joint bank account for nothing. I don’t want to upset my husband but he is totally out of order and we have to have them over for Christmas. What should I do to stop more money going out of our account and possibly claw some money back? repeat. this is real life it has been going on., wait for it, I can’t believe but its true, for 18 years. Weve had 18 years of next week next week and absolutely nothinh. obviously it’s a huge elephant in the room and we don’t want to involve BIL as we dont get on and he’s rude and grumpy all the time, even before all this.
It suits him as he loves all the attention of having his parents to himself. He’s a man child of 48. Weird as, I know, but I’ve had enough but my husband says they are not here for long so wants to appease his Dad and not upset his Mother. Am i being greedy or weird for wanting the money back. We have 2 children snd they’ve lost their inheritance and lost so much time & attention to this nonsense.
Help.
i haven’t said a word about this outside of the family as the whole thing is shameful.