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1 Bedroom Dilemma

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Bigmama1970 · 08/10/2019 16:04

Hi everyone first post on here . I have a dilemma that I really need some help with . Okay I have 4 sons , 22 , 19 ,17 and 5 , I have a 3 bedroom house and I'm using 2 cupboards as bedrooms . One is under stairs, big enough to fit single bed , chest of drawers and tv unit ,one has been turned into a cabin bed idea , floor space just smaller than a single bed .
I have one son that has the biggest room that has punched a hole in his door walls , hes been verbally abusive too , so he been moved out of his room and is at his friends staying temporarily in a huff . So my dilemma is I have one single room going up for grabs . Do I give it to my eldest the 22 year old ( who is in the biggest cupboard ,as he moved out , then back in again ) , the abusive 19 year old or the 5 year old who is in the smallest cabin bed style cupboard ? Whatever I decide do wrong by two of them . The upset and quilt I'm feeling is clouding my decision.
Can you wise Mums in my phone please help ,TIA x

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Scoobygang7 · 08/10/2019 16:26

I'd give it to the youngest. May give the 19 yr old incentive to move out. Why should that behaviour be rewarded? The youngest is going to be with you the longest. He shouldn't have to keep changing rooms. Get him settled in a room he can grow in.

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