Becoming a parent has shown who my real friends are
Cookingcrumble · 01/09/2018 22:38
I'm in my late 20's and ive got young kids , Im still me and love to do things that some women do at my age , hang with friends , clubbing , shopping , working ect .... However since become a mum , my so called friends stopped inviting me out , they go to festivals and other things and I always text them asking if they are ok and how this happened up and if they go out to invite me , even if I say I can't make it an invite would make my day 😕, even just a coffee or a meal or come over and have a girly evenimg ....then after they have even said yeah sure , the day never arrives . And then I seen they have had a night out ect ...
It's always me mako g an effert . Truly thinking about it I have 2 friends who I'd consider being a really friend as they contact me .. my husband's mates have even ditched him, he always contacts them and they don't even bother .
Jadetilly · 02/09/2018 00:04
Wow you sound like me, I'm exactly the same I have one young daughter and as soon as I got pregnant everyone would say how they can't wait to meet her and that we would still go out etc, then I had my daughter and all my friends disappeared and so did my OH friends. its like your written off when you become a parent like we can't have fun when the truth is we would appreciate a night out or even just an invite more than anyone x
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