Hve been married for 10 years and my husband says he loves me but his actions do not match up.
H edoes his own thing can you imargine even whne i cook he can eat the food and not offer me any,calls the kids and leaves me out.
hes says things like my house my money my this my that .but when it suits him he says we should be a team.
if am out of the house he doesnt bother even if i dont come back dont call me even if its night in fact he leaves his phoen down stairs.
he loves the kids and does lots of things with them am like a nanny who is not even needed.
does not buy me any thing while i buy all he has from cloths shoes.
What mostly gets meis the fact that he ignores me when i say how i feel he gets annoyed all moody and takes days with out talking to me and even then he never talks about my concerns .
he is 17 years older than me and he lived alone for a long time .
he even said his family was people in church not me.
i feel like a real faliure ,he runs to help any one who asks but i will have to beg like many times for him to do any thing for me and even then it wont be finished .
i want to leave i can really by Gods grace support my self but i worry for the kids .hepl advice
he does not notice me at all but can coment on other women how nice they look or how clever they are .
Please advice iam distraught