I am late diagnosed ADHD could be autistic too.
I had some counselling and discussing friendships I started by saying I have very few friends, but when I delved back into my past I had had some great friends but mostly didn't last long. I think I'm not good at opening up to people so hard to make strong bonds.
Anyway, I now suspect anyone I did hit it off with, or do hit it off with, is also ND.
My adult children seem the same. They did some crazy things when young but no wonder their gang were all ND.
Anyone else found this.
Also people I see in the media - I often think there are ND traits. For example when they confess to having had drink problems, seem super energetic etc
There are more ND people than the stats suggest?