Our adhd teen is late for everything. We are always waiting on him, and he has no sense of urgency. It stresses us out when we are trying to get him to school on time, to his football matches, or even catch a flight. He has a bit of OCD and is very rigid in doing things in certain ways before he leaves, and doesn’t care if this makes him miss the deadline, but then he will flip a lid if he has missed the bus, or is now running late, and expects us to put ourselves out and race him to the event to get him there on time.
we have tried talking to him about getting ready earlier to no avail. He just tells us all teenagers are late and he needs his sleep.