Physical Intimacy before Marriage

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Three- yes- THREE men have told me they want a test run before marriage. WTH?! I’m 41 and the mother of young children and got marriage when I was 30. When did this shift come into the Muslim dating scene?! These men had no shame when saying what their dealbreakers were and were surprised when I cut short the convo saying I shouldn’t mind because I’m not a virgin. Bloody hell.

That is wild. If you met them through a Muslim marriage site, you should report them to moderators.

I have. There’s no way of knowing what the outcome is. But going by other people’s stories, I’m not alone.