Anyone twice divorced with children?

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I need support...

Salaam sister, I'm not in the same position but didn't want your post to be unanswered. It sounds a hard challenge - is there anything in particular you would find it helpful to talk about?

We're here for you sister x

Thanks for not ignoring a silent cry for help.

I just needed support knowing I've made the right decision with the current marriage.

he's a nice man but drinks and does not necessarily accept Islam the way I do.

the other habits I can tolerate but with the first two I keep having major issues with and think my children deserve a stronger role model. But effectively I'm left with being a single mum of 3.

It's hard if you're not both on the same page. Is it something he wants to work on or is he happy the way he is? Have you reached the point where you feel divorce is inevitable and you're seeking support with the emotional and practical adjustment? Or would you prefer to try and make it work?

Do you feel like there's any potential to turn things around? Would you want to stay if he made changes? Do you think he would want to make changes?

What's happened with his practice? Has he become less practising or has he always been like this?