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So Nervous!!!

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Kelly1978 · 11/03/2006 17:55

I'm sitting here waiting for dp to bring his bro back. Dp is indian and I am white, we've been together three years. We have twins nearly a year old, but I've never met his family and they haven't met the boys. They disapprove of the relationship. His brother didn't really have a problem but family pressures etc etc. I'm really nervous as they will all be asking him questions and this is a first step is getting to know the rest of his family. I've got a HUGE glass of wine, dinner all prepped and keepign everythign crossed!

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Nikkinoo · 14/03/2006 13:25

Kelly you 'sound' loads better hope you feeling happier.

Good luck honey x

stitch · 14/03/2006 13:30

kelly, i think the problem your inlaws have with you is probly the fact that you already have two kids. and they dont want their ds to be raising another man's kids.
or some such thing.

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Kelly1978 · 14/03/2006 14:19

Hi stitch, yep that is one of the big problems, they've said as much. Maybe they would have gotten used to the fact that I'm white by now if it wasn't for that. At least we are getting somewhere now, though I don't think it is ever going to be easy.
How are things going with your dh?

Thanks nikinoo Smile

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stitch · 14/03/2006 20:48

as a friend in rl say's.
same old shit. just a different day.
made loads of lovely cards though Grin

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