Hi, my exp has not paid maint though has started to pay half childcare for dd. I have to work to be able to pay the bills etc and so though him paying half was reasonable, it's nearly 500 a month so half that.
He already pays his ex wife for their kids (all grown up apart from nearly 15 year old) but he still pays her the same amount as he wants to contribute.
I have no idea without going to see a solicitor what is reasonable? Dd is 2 and I do get a small amount of tax credits. Whilst obs I don't think it is too much maybe I am way off the mark, before I go to a solicitor which I would rather try to keep it amongst ourselves really any advice??