My partner has been with the same financial adviser for around 25 years – he's not exactly a friend (I mean they don't socialise), but through many years of meetings, he's become a friendly, familiar face and a trusted adviser.
Just recently, we started looking back at my partner's pension transfer history and it turns out this adviser has been systematically moving his savings onto his company platform, charging extortionate fees and manipulating key details on suitability reports (like my partner's projected retirement age - literally adding years to it to make the data on his investment return tables pass compliance filters). Through this scheming, my partner has given up very valuable benefits, including a precious defined-benefit pension (which was deemed suitable when the data absolutely screamed unsuitable).
We are now preparing to make a formal complaint and look for compensation but I have to admit I'm horrified at how my partner has allowed this to happen – how could he have not looked at the figures more closely? He has literally lost thousands through blindly trusting this man.
The evidence is there in black and white but he's being quite passive about everything, continuing to make excuses for him. It's almost like he's caught in an abusive relationship, unable to accept what is glaringly obvious from the outside.