No judgement as the guilt I feel to be in this position has already taken its toll mentally and emotionally.
I am on a DMP, years of being the generous always say yes person it came to a head and I got help. I’ve completed 1 year of 5 and it’s been hard, I feel I was conservative on my spending (I don’t mean frivolous spending. I mean my usual spending) and the payment is a stress - I have little if anything left at the end of the month. Is it meant to be this hard? I know I have to get out of this and I am trying my best - I am considering lowering my payment I have re put in my numbers on my budget, based on my last 3 months outgoings, it does lower my monthly payment -
my concern is my creditors will not be happy - or something that has been working and going well will implode - has anyone been in a similar situation or are on a DMP?