Oh come on....
We have all seen coddy stir up sometimes. I know she had a go at me, and I've seen her do it to others. I know sometimes it's meant in fun, occasionally doesn't come out that way (but then we can't read tone of voice here).
My comment was made in light-hearted tone anyway (as in the 'quiet word, come closer' bit.)
Anyway there you go. I said it as I saw it (just like you say coddy does )
Off to get ready for dining out now. Night all.