ok long story, when we moved in his mom had been in controll of his cash, so he got overdraft overspent etc, we moved back in with my mom step dad my dp had sales job one week brought home £7. i had worked over 50hrs to pay what needed to be paid i lost my job as it was temp, he worked for lettings agency who paid cash, we never saw this they said they was paying our rent ctax tc, we are in debt we owe £600 here and there we are paying out more than whats coming in im so scared iv had bailiffs knock the door before dont want it to happen again as have dd now am so scared i am considering leaving him till he has sorted his debts. please give me your wise advice am going to see if i can book him cab appointment as i cant sort it its in his name.