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Compensation pay out

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ilovesprouts · 30/05/2017 12:53

Got my compensation payout after 4 years of waiting has a few interim payments in between. I've gave both kids around 8k each ds1 saving his dd1 now expects me to pay her rent arrears off around 1600 pounds or they are getting evicted I can't keep dolling out money because dd1 and her fella can't afford stuff they have missed weeks paying rent out now. Expected me to pay this is not the first time I've helped them out I've helped them out about 6 times giving them money for the rent etc now she's got a mutual pal involved say oh help them out they won't ask again knowing well that they will I'm sick of paying for other ppl bills yes she's my dd but her boyfriends family won't help them because they have helped to lots of times like me now I've got my daughter on the phone crying what we have got left at last me for life any advice please.

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user1492287253 · 31/05/2017 10:42

well there you are then. the money is to try and compensate you in some small way for pain and suffering( i am aware that money cant really do this) and provide an income to make up for future lost earnings. you seriously cannot hand this out to all and sundry. stay strong on this.

ilovesprouts · 31/05/2017 18:15

I'm doing just that can't keep handing her money out

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