i feel like im cracking up over money!!

[kittylette]

i bet your all sick of hearing this, but i just have nowhere else to vent

the wedding is 9 months away and we still havent a penny,

my mums house isnt sold, my MIL doesnt appear to be giving us any - my FIL gave us £500 which my MIL asked to borrow to pay her rent and DF agreed!

we still cant even get a credit card because of no credit history, never mind the loan we were planning on getting!!

everything seems to be hanging on us getting a loan, which just looks highly unlikely, the most we can put away will nowhere near cover the wedding commitments weve made unless we get the loan,

i just feel so stressed

plus abbey ordered me a new debit card on friday, they said it will arrive within 7 days so my current one has been cancelled already!! which means i cant use it or withdraw money! so basically i have NO money untill it arrives!! the nearest branch to withdraw money is ages away - i cant get there at the mo,

i can afford the repayments absolutly fine!! so somebody give me a fecking loan!!!

ahrghhhhh

wait that sounds like we have no money (in which case a loan would obviously be a bad idea) what i meant was we are currently putting 'xxx' amount away each month (enough for a loan repayment) but if we just put that much aside each month directly to the wedding fund it wont be enough as theres only 9 months to go, iykwim

Have you looked on moneysavingexpert? I know you are not in debt or anything but there is loads of advice on there about loans and stuff and who can get what and where from, might be worth a look as it sounds like you are very stressed which isnt good!!!! Best of luck