Hi,
Just wanting to see if anyone has had similar circumstances. Currently on mat leave and trying to figure out what works out best for us financially. Before ds was born dm said she was retiring and would do childcare, unfortunately she has changed her mind so I went to citizens advice to try and make sense of everything.
Citizens advice have said that if either one of us gave up work to care for ds we would receive the same amount of benefits despite the fact there is £4000pa difference in our earnings, is this right?? They also said if we work it will only work out at £40pm more.
Unfortunately dh is the one with lower earnings, we both said if it came to it that we would want me to look after ds, I'd do groups and more actibities/housework and dh doesn't really have much patience, doesn't look like I've got much choice though.
Would to know if anyone else has been in a similar situation. Or even any ideas on how we can make this work! I'm starting to panic a bit as ds is 5 months and everything we had in place has all changed and I find this benefits stuff rather confusing as the online calculators xame out with completely different figures.