i know the way these threads can go - I am not asking for money and while I think it is incredibly sweet when people offer I won't accept
Sorry for above disclaimer.
Have namechanged as I'm a bit embarrassed and my ex stalks me on here.
We've no money. Well, £40. That's to get through to the end of the month.
We have no oven, or microwave. We do have a toaster.
No access to credit.
Fuel costs are high due to having to take my son to school. Not sure if there's a way around this. (He will hopefully be starting at a new school which is local in 2016 but for now it's tough.)
Fussy cats need food.
Argh. I am partly posting for advice, and also partly for emotional sounding off as I'm fed up of thinking about money.