Background is that stbxh and I are nearing the end of a divorce, and I am claiming some of his pension. As we are (or were) both teachers i had thought it would be a simple transfer of the amount from his pension to mine. I phoned them today to be told that to do this the fees are £2500+ VAT, taking it to nearly £3000. This is prohibitive and will mean that I am likely not going to be able to claim. Stbxh would also not be able to cover anywhere near this sort of fee.
So, what can I do? Is there any way around this? Obviously I have emailed my solicitor, still waiting for a reply. The woman on the phone said that it's a government imposed fee ('course it is!) so there was nothing else to be done.
Any advice?