concretebox (((HUGS))) I am sure that I will be in same position as you.
I have one loan from 96. I have always deferred too, and am due to have the loan wiped in 5yrs.
I sent the form off within two days of receiving, on 1st April, signed for.
I phoned up the next week, and was told that they hadn't received my form!!! I checked Royal Mail, found it was signed for on 2nd April, phoned back, was told that it was there! It would take two weeks to process.
Phoned today, and have been told that it is still waiting to be processed, and will take 4 weeks!!!!!
I asked what will happen, as my deferment ends on 14th May, and she said that if it is approved they will roll back for 3 months, and if it hasn't enough info then the arrears will stand, as I didn't get the info to them in time.
I feel sick. How is possible that it can come back on me, if they decide they haven't enough info? Surely if they haven't, and I submitted form and evidence in time, then if they haven't got everything the onus is on them, to let me know before my deferment ends????
The evidence I sent was three months of bank statements (printed as I only have online banking).
I receive child tax credit, child benefit, and DLA (which is not counted).
My husband gives me no money, so I didn't send a letter from him, as my bank statements make it clear that I pay for all shopping etc. Yes, DH pays bills, but he doesn't give me anything.
I have no p60 as I don't work.
I am very scared. I have bipolar and have started self-harming due to the stress.
I just know they are going to reject me, let the arrears stand, then refuse to wipe the loan in 5years.