Ectopic pregnancy, I'm not sure how I should or want to feel

[stephie101]

Ive just been discharged from hospital after a very difficult week of misdiagnoses, it wasnt the docs fault they just couldnt see anything. I had the injection last night, and all seems ok, i just dont know what to feel, yeah im emotional, yeah i'm in a bit of pain, but I'm woried for my partner as he just says he's ok......

Sorry to hear of your loss, take care.

Sorry stephie, sounds awful, I'm going through a very drawn out 'possible ectopic' and it's horrid. At first I felt quite pragmatic about it, but as time went on I started to get really sad and just want to hibernate, stay in bed and drink hot chocolate and hide. The most important thing is to be very very good to yourself and give yourself lots of time to rest and recover and process everything. Gently encourage your partner to talk when he's ready. He's probably been very worried for you. Take all the time you need.x

How are you today stephie?

Yeah applepi it is really drawn out, was discharged again this morning as dp is very overprotective, but hormone levels are dropping now, so no more morning sickness and sore boobs, thats the worst thing I think, feeling pregnant and nothing there, but being positive and pragmatic now, the kids are being great though, even hoovering..!!!!!!!!!!

That's good. Keep the kids working!