i have just had my 2nd miscarriage (erpc) on new years eve, i was 10wks, they said baby had stopped at 9wks. i had some bleeding at 7+3, went to a&e where i was given an internal to make sure my cervix was closed, it took 20 mins, 3 different size instruments and a lot of searching, when she finally found it, it was closed. i had a scan at 8 weeks and a heartbeat was found. 9+2 (boxing day) i had a slight bleed, went to a&e, was told to go to epu after the weekend, had a scan on the tuesday where we were told there was no heartbeat. had the erpc an the wednesday. on the following monday i had a phone call from my doctors to come and get antibiotics as i had a urine infection.....picked up from my sample on boxing day!! how could i have got an infection, we hadnt had any sex for weeks because we were scared, so could i have got it from the internal and could it have caused my miscarriage. we were so careful. i hope someone can make sense of this, im not trying to place blame, i was reluctant to have the internal and now wish i hadnt. thanks in advance for any info.