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Will it ever happen?

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RMCx3 · 11/03/2024 18:58

4 losses... 3 last year and 1 just before my birthday this year. The recent was a CP.

I just feel it will never happen for me.

I feel so deflated.

I'm just sharing how I feel right now, as it's important that we do and don't bottle up how we feel.

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RMCx3 · 14/04/2025 13:28

@TheBirdintheCave thank you xx

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Objectiontime · 14/04/2025 22:05

RMCx3 · 13/04/2025 13:35

Hi - I know I haven't posted on her for a while. I had my rainbow baby after 4 losses. He is the apple of my eye and my world. I never thought this would happen - for those who may read this message looking for stories that will help which is something I did.... stay positive, do changes that you want to do but feel may get in the way if you got pregnant. I started a new job which I love and few weeks later I found out I was pregnant. I was holding my own life back and with a change of mindset everything changed. My job was much better and the people are amazing- so supportive!

My son is nearly 4 weeks old and I wouldn't change anything.

Good luck to those who are trying - I never thought it will happen but it did x

Huge congratulations, wonderful news x

thismummyslife · 14/04/2025 22:09

Oh gosh, I’ve just come across your old thread Lovely and saw your message from yesterday and I’m crying! I’m so happy for you, just wonderful x

Objectiontime · 14/04/2025 22:10

Figtree11 · 13/04/2025 18:15

Oh @RMCx3 congratulations! Such wonderful news!

I had my third missed miscarriage last week after TTC for coming up to 2 years, and feeling everything you posted about originally.

I am trying to do things like you say about not holding life back - have just bought a very impractical 2 seater car!

I hope one day I can go back to one of the threads I started with a similar update to you

@Figtree11 I am so very sorry to read your update. Sending hugs. I am now on cycle 6 after my third loss (one MMC and 2 chemical). Waiting to see whether the prednisone I now have to take from ovulation every month, does the job next time.

RMCx3 · 15/04/2025 12:24

Wishing you all the best! I'm sending positive vibes your way x

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