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Today is the day I find out for sure (support please)

16 replies

EmiJomobean · 22/01/2024 07:58

Well the day has finally arrived. The day of the scan that will either confirm my worst fears or answer our desperate prayers.

Started spotting light pink on Thursday, progressively changed from brown to rusty to light & then dark red. Was in pain Friday until a clot was passed. Bleeding not needing a pad. Just been as and when I go to the loo and wipe.

I’m so terrified I feel sick. Half of me thinks of course it is fine, it’s only spotting. The other half thinks how can it be fine? I was in pain and passed a clot.

only time will tell. I do know I had a 7cm cyst on my left ovary, praying it’s burst 😣

love and support appreciated.

OP posts:
Alloveragain3 · 22/01/2024 08:04

Thinking of you and hoping for good news x

HeartandSeoul · 22/01/2024 08:07

Thinking of you OP x

Iamnotalemming · 22/01/2024 08:08

Handhold OP x

EmilyBelle3 · 22/01/2024 08:15

Hope all good news ❤️

Unitedthebest · 22/01/2024 08:17

Sending love ❤️

graceinc22 · 22/01/2024 08:20

Thinking of you x

EmiJomobean · 22/01/2024 08:23

Thank you all ❤️❤️

OP posts:
Sleeplessinseattle234 · 22/01/2024 08:25

Sending love. And support from afar. Xxxx

Figtree11 · 22/01/2024 14:41

Sending you love & hoping for good news for you

letstrythatagain · 22/01/2024 14:57

💕 sending positive vibes x

Longbarn5 · 22/01/2024 21:16

I hope you got good news. In any event I wanted to add my support and hugs

EmiJomobean · 22/01/2024 22:35

update! Today wasn’t the day … fml … scan was ‘inconclusive’, EPU couldn’t find evidence of pregnancy or miscarriage. So I am now labelled PUL (pregnancy of unknown location) which to me is an awful name!

From the info leaflet they’ve given me, we have 70% chance of MC / EP, 30% chance it was too early to see.

Just want a definitive answer now so I can move forward :(

OP posts:
Longbarn5 · 23/01/2024 13:24

Oh no, so sorry to hear that. What a horrible position to be in! Hope you get a definitive answer soon. Hand holding xx

EmiJomobean · 23/01/2024 18:12

Just updating the thread. Fetal tissue passed today. Miscarried this time.

OP posts:
anybloodyname · 23/01/2024 18:20

So sorry to see this update
Sending you love and strength darling girl
💐

yaychocolateginandwine · 23/01/2024 18:24

So sorry, thinking of you all xx

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