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Ttc after miscarriage

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shan1989 · 16/01/2023 22:17

Hi all,

I had a miscarriage in September 22, I have been TTC since.

I am currently cycle day 17, I used the clear blue digital ovulation test this month. I started testing cycle day 10. I got my static face on cycle day 14 :D!!
I DTD on cycle days 11 13 14 16 and will tomorrow just for luck!
Do you think I have covered it ? I'm flapping because I didn't DTD on cycle day 15 due to my partner needing a break.

Thank you in advance , all replies are grateful.

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shan1989 · 22/01/2023 20:16

I am sorry.

Cycles can be all over the place after a miscarriage, my first proper cycle was 27 days then 30 days so I think I'm only just getting back to a regular cycle and it's been some time.

I would give yourself time, it's not been long for you.

Just relax and just let it happen x

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ttcttc · 22/01/2023 20:26

shan1989 · 22/01/2023 20:16

I am sorry.

Cycles can be all over the place after a miscarriage, my first proper cycle was 27 days then 30 days so I think I'm only just getting back to a regular cycle and it's been some time.

I would give yourself time, it's not been long for you.

Just relax and just let it happen x

Yeah I thought this too. Will be what it will be. X

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 09:06

@Emmamoo89 😳😳😳😳 10 days post ovulation and we have a faint !! 🥰

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Emmamoo89 · 23/01/2023 10:24

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 09:06

@Emmamoo89 😳😳😳😳 10 days post ovulation and we have a faint !! 🥰

Awww 🥰🥰 I had a feeling you'd get your rainbow. Congratulations GrinSmile 💖 xx

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 14:46

@Emmamoo89 thank you! So emotional 😭 🫣❤️ I just hope this one is to stay! Fingers crossed you get your BFP this month.
One thing I did do different that I didn't mention is I used a fertility cup, they had really good reviews 🤔 Xx

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Emmamoo89 · 23/01/2023 14:57

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 14:46

@Emmamoo89 thank you! So emotional 😭 🫣❤️ I just hope this one is to stay! Fingers crossed you get your BFP this month.
One thing I did do different that I didn't mention is I used a fertility cup, they had really good reviews 🤔 Xx

It's so good to see it in words 🥰 thank you! Will keep you updated. Getting a lot of headaches. But will not try and symptoms spot 🤣 that's how I got pregnant fertility cup and preseed Smile xx

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 17:09

It's the best feeling 🥹😻 I find it crazy that my period isn't due until Sunday.. I hope this is a good sign.

I think it will happen for you. Just got to keep going! It's been the longest 5 months of my life lol, but I've got longer to go now 🤞🏼

I read really really good reviews about the fertility cup, don't get me wrong it was so messy 🤮 but maybe it did work.

xxx

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Emmamoo89 · 23/01/2023 17:49

shan1989 · 23/01/2023 17:09

It's the best feeling 🥹😻 I find it crazy that my period isn't due until Sunday.. I hope this is a good sign.

I think it will happen for you. Just got to keep going! It's been the longest 5 months of my life lol, but I've got longer to go now 🤞🏼

I read really really good reviews about the fertility cup, don't get me wrong it was so messy 🤮 but maybe it did work.

xxx

It really is 🥰Smile it is a good sign! I hope so. Just annoying that I didn't get peak but I think I definitely had a bad batch of tests. Cause the line on most of them stayed the same and its never done that before.

Yes its really messy and so annoying to pull out. It definitely contributed xxx

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 14:24

Hope so! It's getting darker so 🤞🏼 ❤️

How are you getting on?

Yeah the fertility cup was messy to say the least ! 🤣🤣🤣 xxx

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ttcttc · 25/01/2023 14:33

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 14:24

Hope so! It's getting darker so 🤞🏼 ❤️

How are you getting on?

Yeah the fertility cup was messy to say the least ! 🤣🤣🤣 xxx

Come on then girls, give us the details on the cup. What is it and how does it work? How do we use it and how much are they etc 😂

Emmamoo89 · 25/01/2023 15:49

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 14:24

Hope so! It's getting darker so 🤞🏼 ❤️

How are you getting on?

Yeah the fertility cup was messy to say the least ! 🤣🤣🤣 xxx

I'm glad 😊 ❤ sorry for tmi I'm getting so much discharge. Feel like I'm peeing my pants its that bad 🙈 i don't get that every cycle only when pregnant. Haha yep 🤣🤣 it's also a pain in the arse to insert xxx

Emmamoo89 · 25/01/2023 15:51

ttcttc · 25/01/2023 14:33

Come on then girls, give us the details on the cup. What is it and how does it work? How do we use it and how much are they etc 😂

After you've had sex insert it. Don't let any spermy escape. It's not too expensive. Got mine off amazon. I left mine in 12 hours and worked for me also. Use preseed makes it easier to insert xxx

Emmamoo89 · 25/01/2023 15:52

I say easier it's still a pain to insert 🤣 such a fanny on xxx

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 18:09

Haha! It was about £30 on Amazon, have a look at the reviews, they are really good! You have sex then insert it. I would 100% recommend reading instructions, and watching the guide video.. I got it wrong the first time lol. Who knows if it helped this cycle but I think it had some effect. 🥰

I have very creamy discharge but nothing else just abit tired.. but my period isn't due until Sunday so not expecting loads of symptoms... I am slightly worried that my right overy is hurting thou? Could this be normal?

I always say loads of discharge is a positive sign... I always dry up after ovulation if I haven't caught that cycle!

When can you start testing? ❤️

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shan1989 · 25/01/2023 18:09

I used conceive plus lubricant with it 😊

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Emmamoo89 · 25/01/2023 18:22

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 18:09

Haha! It was about £30 on Amazon, have a look at the reviews, they are really good! You have sex then insert it. I would 100% recommend reading instructions, and watching the guide video.. I got it wrong the first time lol. Who knows if it helped this cycle but I think it had some effect. 🥰

I have very creamy discharge but nothing else just abit tired.. but my period isn't due until Sunday so not expecting loads of symptoms... I am slightly worried that my right overy is hurting thou? Could this be normal?

I always say loads of discharge is a positive sign... I always dry up after ovulation if I haven't caught that cycle!

When can you start testing? ❤️

I think it definitely helped Smile been having lots of headaches and just feeling really achey all over. Some vivid dreams. Also feel very tired like doesn't matter how much I sleep just shattered. That sounds normal but keep an eye on it. I'm gonna give it a few more days then test ❤️ xxx

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 18:33

That's all positive!!! Excited for you to test ☺️❤️

I don't feel worried , it's not sharp it just a dull ache that comes and goes.
If it was ectopic I'm sure it would be more painful?xx

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Emmamoo89 · 26/01/2023 12:39

shan1989 · 25/01/2023 18:33

That's all positive!!! Excited for you to test ☺️❤️

I don't feel worried , it's not sharp it just a dull ache that comes and goes.
If it was ectopic I'm sure it would be more painful?xx

I'll update soon as I test ☺️❤ yes it would. Also spot and get shoulder pain. How is it today? Xxx

shan1989 · 26/01/2023 15:37

Yes please do would be great to keep in touch 😁🥰!!

It's gone today thankfully!! I did speak to GP about it, they said that it can be from hormones and overy shutting down. Could also be a cyst.

They said if it was ectopic I would be in a lot of pain and have brown/bloody watery discharge. xxx

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shan1989 · 26/01/2023 16:00

I'm progressing really quickly! Is this normal! ?

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Emmamoo89 · 26/01/2023 16:23

shan1989 · 26/01/2023 16:00

I'm progressing really quickly! Is this normal! ?

What dpo are you? Could be twins GrinGrinxxx

shan1989 · 26/01/2023 16:38

I wouldn't mind 🤣🤞🏼

I am 13DPO now xxx

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Emmamoo89 · 27/01/2023 18:40

shan1989 · 26/01/2023 16:38

I wouldn't mind 🤣🤞🏼

I am 13DPO now xxx

So I did an ovulation test and it's positive 😌 so I'll do a pregnancy test tomorrow and update Smile ❤xxx

Emmamoo89 · 27/01/2023 18:41

I swear to god tho if I am pregnant. It shows for pregnancy and didn't get a peak test the lines stayed the same. Tbf I'm got a strong feeling because I never feel like this when not pregnant. Feel like utter shit xxx

Emmamoo89 · 27/01/2023 18:48

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