4 weeks pregnant after miscarriage and so stressed

[MichelleScarn]

Have finally got bfp after miscarriage last year and am not helping myself with being constantly stressed.
Every twinge or needing to go to the loo am panicking so much.

Can't decide if should go for an early private scan, but would anything even be there?
I had such a horrible time last year with hugely dismissive midwife, even from the start at booking in. I want to phone and get my first appt, but feel will just be huffed at again for phoning before 8 weeks. I can't even remember when I should phone ro make the appointment!

Hello Michelle -
im in the same boat! I’ve had two back to back losses, I’m 13dpo today. I’m getting a scan done in three weeks time

Hey Tashy, congratulations, sorry youve been through this too. When did you phone to book? Is it nhs or private?

Hey Michelle-
well I went through a fertility clinic for the recurrent miscarriages, I was supposed to start an ovulation induction cycle when my period starts… although my period never started because I fell pregnant ! Typical me !! So, they have given me progesterone and a viability scan at 7 weeks (7th Sept) fingers crossed I make it that far ! 🤞🏼🌈

I can totally sympathise with you!

Private scans are done 7/8 weeks, same as early NHS scans because you might not see anything before then.

@MichelleScarn @Tashyb123 I’m currently in the position you both were in at the time of these posts. I hope things are going well for you both? X

Hey lovely - I’m 8 weeks today, went for a scan last week and saw baby and a heartbeat!
going for another scan this weekend as I’m going away … just for reassurance! Xxx

@Tashyb123 great news - sending you huge congratulations! X

@Tashyb123 i forgot to say, best of luck for this weekend’s scan!

Amazing @Tashyb123 I've my 8 week scan tomorrow and am well into the vomiting and feeling absolutely awful all the time so it's yaay but 🤢.
@KJHWW it's a really horrible stressful place to be so sending unmumsnetty hugs to you.

Have you been touch with your EPU yet?

@MichelleScarn best of luck for your scan tomorrow, it sounds as though things are going well, albeit you’re feeling pretty rubbish!

I’ve not made contact yet, too early to see anything on a scan so I figured I’ll just have to wait it out (and drive myself crazy in the meantime!!) x

I had the gagging and the nausea up until this week, it’s slowed down now, in fact I don’t feel sick this week!… weird! X

Thank you, I hope it’s all ok…. Pregnancy after loss is a huge mind game 😔🌈