Are you more likely to miscarry at the same stage you miscarried before?

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I’ve tried looking into this online and I’m not sure whether I’m not wording it right as I’m not really finding anything. If you’ve had a miscarriage are you more likely to miscarry at the same gestation again? I’m pregnant after a later loss (after 12 weeks) and I’m struggling to relax after the scan because at this point last time everything was fine too. But I have had a positive 12 week scan which is still something regardless.

Well it really depends whether you know if there was a reason for your previous loss? If for example it was due to weak cervix, then it's possible it will happen again at a similar gestation. But if it was because there was an issue with the embryo's genetics, or you got an infection, then it's less likely to recur. Often we don't know a reason though, and it's a case of just trying to stay as chilled as you can manage and get through it. Pregnancy is tough anyway, but prior loss definitely makes it harder.