Sorry to see everyone on these thread, baby loss at any stage is awful, heartbreaking.
Myself and husband are in the process of arrange our baby girls funeral, she was born sleeping at 16+1weeks on 27th April She is our first and only child.
I have been to many funerals including a baby loss of one of our friends. We are struggling with songs, poem to have, she is much loved wanted and missed but how do we talk about her and honour her short life - we didn't know who she was to be.
I have the song still for the middle of the service and undecided about over a rainbow to exit - is that too cheery song?
Any ideas, thoughts or experiences welcomed.