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People keep asking if I'm ok, and I don't want to be asked

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parlourpalm · 14/12/2020 09:38

I don't want to talk about my miscarriage so I end up just saying I'm fine but then I get asked again and again. Obviously they care about me etc, but I just hate that question now.

Anyone else understand?

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ktypage · 14/12/2020 10:00

Totally understand.
We are recovering from a “blighted ovum” and still feeling the effects on medical management not to mention the emotional side. I heard one of our neighbours say to mr husband the other day “she’s alright now though isn’t she”? I could have slapped her! Haha.
I’ve found a lot of people are just unsure what to say to you at the moment so they don’t realise it can be quite a burden. Maybe just put a message out to people around you that you appreciate them looking in on you, you’re taking some time for yourself to recover and will be in touch with them when you are ready to do so x

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