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2 early miscarriages, no successful pregnancies yet.

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Helensss · 12/08/2019 14:53

Hello all, I have just gone through a 2nd early miscarriage, took my body 2 years to settle after the pill, we then conceived quite quickly and subsequently miscarried both at 5 weeks. Now I’m so scared to get pregnant again, any success stories or advice is really welcomed!! Xx

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Helensss · 15/08/2019 08:40

@Sizeofalentil so so nice to hear positive success stories, I’m literally seeing babies everywhere, my two closest friends are pregnant with their second and I’m still struggling along trying to get my first, hopeful it will all be worth it in the end. Best of luck to everyone else xx

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Helensss · 15/08/2019 08:42

@Rarfy yes everyone keeps telling me it will be worth it in the end and I am trying to keep positive! Congrats on your happy ending ❤️

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Rarfy · 15/08/2019 08:45

Thank you.

I think for me that was one of the worst feelings. Knowing you had been trying for ages and should in effect have x amount of children and then one of your friends overtakes you. It's really really silly but I found it tough and even now, although I really know it shouldn't, it does affect me when people have it plain sailing. I would never say that in real life and of course am ultimately happy for others but there is an overriding feeling of why was it me that had to go through all the shit. I think it's normal!

I'm sure you will get there, just keep on going. Sending lots of luck.

Helensss · 15/08/2019 09:16

Of course, although I’m super happy for them it does feel hard each time there’s an announcement, and you wonder if there’s anything you did wrong but that’s silly as well. Thank you 😊

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