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TTC after miscarrying? Anyone else in same boat

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Sophiehfz2805 · 12/07/2016 22:54

Im finally TTC after having a late miscarriage just about 6 weeks ago now. Ive had my first period and also finishes my antibiotics which treated infections. Ive been TTC since i came off period so its been about 4 days now ive been trying. I was wondering if anyone else is ttc and have been sucessful straight afterwards? I feeel down thinking that its going to take forever :(

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NeverGoOutOfStyle · 25/07/2016 22:07

Hi Ktt512 So sorry to hear of your mc Flowers

I know what you mean, I wasn't sure if TTC straight away was the best of ideas but we both realised quite how much we wanted this baby, our mc was my first pregnancy, but would be DP's second child and I just have this need now thats so strong that I want to be a mother and to have a baby, to be pregnant again so much. I feel similarly to you about missing being pregnant, when I knew I was miscarrying I wanted my symptoms to go away but a few days later when they were disappearing I wanted them to stay so badly.

We've decided to go with a somewhat relaxed TTC, we generally DTD everyday or every other day anyway but it sometimes wains a little but trying to stick with every other day and just see how it goes, I want to be pregnant again so badly but at the same time I'm trying to go with a 'it'll happen when it happens' type approach.

McBaby · 26/07/2016 09:29

Feeling the same way desperately want to be pregnant again but want to stop thinking about it so j can enjoy what I have already!

I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago. I started bleeding when I was 10 weeks. Scan showed a baby measuring 4/5 weeks.

Still getting positive pregnant tests but also getting lots of ewcm so I have no idea what or when I will ovulate, have period etc it's the not knowing that is making it hard to switch off from it!

Lizziedoll · 26/07/2016 10:47

Hello I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers. I'm going through a natural mc at the moment (I was almost 7 weeks pg) and I am just waiting for the bleeding to stop so that I can TTC again. I have been bleeding for close to a week now and passing clots (sorry tmi). If it's any comfort, I hear women are super fertile right after having a mc. Good luck xxx

Hazandduck · 28/07/2016 13:13

Lizzie are you going to wait for your next period then try or just go for it? My GP told me to just go for it. My bleeding is now literally the tiniest brown spotting and GP confirmed my cervix is closed. It may be my hormones but I am feeling desperate to be pregnant again now!! Kind of tempted to just DTD tonight! Bit terrified but if I leave it too long I'll probably chicken out of trying again ever. At least if we miscarry again I'll be prepared because I know what to expect. X

Paige84 · 28/07/2016 19:24

Hi all. I'm so sorry for everyone's losses. After a late loss of my first pregnancy at 16 weeks back in April and subsequent D&C in June, we're now ttc again. I so want to be pregnant again but am terrified of it taking a long time or being completely unsuccessful (and almost equally terrified of being successful but then losing again) I had my first period early July but already feel sure I've not managed it this month. Fingers crossed we all get our happy endings eventually x

Lizziedoll · 29/07/2016 07:15

hazandduck I'm just gonna go for it. The doctor told me I could bleed for another two weeks but it seems to have stopped already. A few days ago I was unsure I could go through this again but now that I'm feeling better I've realised I would go through this a hundred times in order to become a mum and give my boyfriend a child. Baby dust to all X

LeannRegs · 05/08/2016 21:17

Sophie-- I'm checking in to see if you took a HPT and got your BFP this time??

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