I am looking for some insight from people who have been in this position.
I have a friend who had a stillbirth at 6 months and then a miscarriage at about 13 weeks. She went on to have 2 healthy children. this was over 30 years ago but I believe it still affects her to this day which I imagine it would. She is obsessed by babies and talks about how she was never good at making babies. When others are pregnant I've been there when she mentions her stillbirth which I think is a little inappropriate. She is very possessive over her grandchildren too.
I just want to know how to support her. I do listen to her. How is she feeling after all this time. I imagine you never get over it. But do you think it's shaped her into the person she is today? I need help understanding her because I find some of her behaviour a little troubling..