Hi, I found out that I was pg end september, I never told my husband as he was going away on a boys weekend and I knew he wouldn't leave me to go, so I had planned to tell him when he returned
So he came back on the 9th oct, ill with a bug, he then passed it onto me and I was ill for a couple of days, then all ok, then the spotting started and eventually I ended up having a miscarriage on the 18th Oct.
So never even got as far as a scan or anything
The actual mc was awful, although stopped bleeding within three days and then booked to see the dr.
I had not seen this dr before, as I am never ill, eventually got an appointment fri 27th Oct
This was my first time pg
Told doctor what has happened, I'm not sure what I expected her to do, but basically she said, I looked fit and healthy and there was no reason why I couldn't try again
I said what about my age? and she said, oh I thought it was a typo and it should say 1983 (which is flattering I suppose) I said no, I am 42 in three weeks.
All she said was come back in 6 months if you have not fallen pg, I asked about kits, what I should do, best times etc, and she said just take folic acid
I came out without even having my temperature taken? not sure if anything else should have happened, or should I have been given any advice?
hence why I am here!
any help/ advice apperciated!
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