bit sad lately. would have been 21 weeks by now with twins :(

[dirtyface]

had MMC of twins at 11 weeks

and a friend who got PG around the same time has just had her 20 week scan this week. its just brought it to the front of my mind that had it all gone to plan we would probably know what we were having, would be thinking of names, possibly buying baby stuff, and would be well over half way to due date

been half heartedly TTC again but no bfp so far. i know its still early days.

am just a bit sad and wanted to write it down. :(

Oh dear, I'm so sorry to read this. I don't have any advice but I didn't want to leave your post unanswered.

It must be so difficult for you as your friend is a direct reminder of where you should be in your pregnancy and that must really hurt. From her point of view, she is probably mindful of not talking about it too much for fear of upsetting you.

You have had a serious loss and only with time will you feel better.

I'm sorry dirty. I had a mmc a little while back. I would be six months pregnant now and a new baby has just been born in the family. I'm finding it hard so I can relate. Hugs.

thanks monikar x

and am so sorry to hear about your loss too celtic :(

think its cos 20 ish weeks is quite a landmark, when pg with my other dcs it seemed to go quick after that