2 Miscarriages since April, now possibly going through another one... someone help me stay strong and positive? :(

[RileyTheLittleMonster]

I lost my little boy at 23 weeks on April 6th
I then had two D&C's after in May and June, followed by PID in July.
Then got pregnant and Miscarried August 16th at 6 weeks. Both the pregnancies were planned.

Loosing my baby boy and squid it gave the motivation to do what i want, so i went back to college but found out 10 days ago I'm pregnant again.

I had a really heavy bleed on Friday within the hour it leaked through my trousers with little clots.. I got scanned today and it showed a 6 week baby with no heartbeat, they said they cant tell me until my next scan on christmas eve what is happening . i havent bleed since friday so I'm guessing if I bleed im miscarrying, they said it may be that babys heartbeat hasn't pushed forward.

Positive thinking doesnt get you anywhere anymore, just feel so down and negative and i never usually am

Bad news, baby hasnt grown and no hb. Having my 3rd d&c tomorrow then have to wait three months for my blood to go back to normal for tests. X

I'm so sorry Riley . I know how hard it can be.

Big unMumsnetty hugs

Atleast I had a scan tiday instead of Christmas eve and a d&c tomorrow to get it out of the way. minkywinky sorry to hear you've been through similar.

Im only 18, so I thought my pregnancies would go swiftly. My first one was a walk in the park until the day before i lost jim at 23 weeks so it's weird how my two orher pregnancies after riley havent made iy past 7 weeks!

I'm so sorry for you loss, it's so unfair.

Are the blood tests the first steps to finding out what's causing your miscarriages?
I really hope it's something they figure out quickly & you have a safe, boring 40wk pregnancy whenever you're ready to try again.

x

Everything happens for a reason, even if it's something so cruel.

Yeah, I'm not getting pregnant until after the tests are done. Planning again probably around October so a while to wait and to recover Atleast I have christmas to cheer me up!

I've told my boyfriend I want a fullterm or overdue baby, no matter how boring!

Thank you gary . X