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Mother's Day is pants when you've just had a miscarriage.

8 replies

cupcakes · 26/03/2006 09:10

That's it really.
Sorry. Feeling sorry for myself this morning. And dh inadvertedly told me he would have made a MD card with the scan picture for me (as he has done previously). This is the first time I've cried in weeks.
Am going to go out with my children for the day (see, I don't have that much to be down about) and put it to the back of my mind.

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fastasleep · 26/03/2006 09:11

Oh cupcakes Sad

this is why the handmade stuff should be kept for birthdays and christmas and mothers day should be abolished...

Sad
Pudmog · 26/03/2006 09:46

I sympathise- miscarriage started 10 days ago- still feel rubbish and have a dreadful cold. I have to go to church and reveal the banner my daughter and i made a few weeks ago about God's abundant love. Great. Will be thinking of you today.

FrannyandZooey · 26/03/2006 10:10

Sorry, don't know what to say but just wanted to add a few words for you and say I am sorry to hear of your loss.

Nemo1977 · 26/03/2006 10:11

cupcakes you are bound to be down. Every mothers
day makes me think of the 3mcs I have had. I am also lucky as I have 2 gorgeous little ones but it doesnt make it any easier.

cece · 26/03/2006 20:04

Cupcakes me too.

Found out on Fri that I have a missed miscarraige and not able to have ERPC till Friday Sad

tamum · 26/03/2006 20:06

I had one that started on Mother's day 8 years ago. It does get easier with time, but I agree with you about the pants aspect :(

fisil · 26/03/2006 20:08

cupcakes - my mc was the Monday before Mothering Sunday two years ago. Today I walked up the aisle in church with my gorgeous two sons holding my hands to claim their flowers to give to me - and even then I was thinking about the one I lost. It is always horrible to lose a baby, but around mothering sunday is just the pits. Big hugs.

Fi

babyfettle · 26/03/2006 20:19

Can I join in and say I agree - I did have a lovely day today with DD and DH being great, but did have a little cry in Church this morning, when noone was looking for my little baby that was never meant to be.
Big hugs to all.

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