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having a mc, atm going down the expectant route, should i be putting something in the toilet when i go to the loo, like a bedpan?

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whiteandyelloworchid · 24/08/2012 23:24

as i don't want the baby to dissapear down the toilet really.

i suppose i could put some tissues doen the loo first, before going for a wee etc

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whiteandyelloworchid · 25/08/2012 16:44

i've follwed your advice and i now have a sieve in the bathroom

taken some more paracetamol and codeing made me feel a bit drowsy

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joberg · 26/08/2012 18:07

How you getting On? X

Haylebop12 · 26/08/2012 19:40

My baby was 9 weeks when I passed it. It was identifiable but dh dealt with it and I trusted him when he said he didn't think I should look. We buried it in my engagement ring box with a message inside.
I hope your getting on ok. So sorry for your loss.

joberg · 26/08/2012 21:43

Oh haylebop that's beautiful

Haylebop12 · 26/08/2012 22:12

I totally get the OP not wanting it to go down the loo. I might have felt differently had I not seen a very good heartbeat at a scan at 7.4 wk. i knew my baby had been alive and letting it go down the loo made me feel so sad inside.

whiteandyelloworchid · 26/08/2012 22:24

i only thought to use a sieve as that what i was advised on here, by orchidee.

please do not feel bad if the baby went to the toilet, most of them do, i read it somewhere, even my son was born on the toilet too.

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