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2 miscarriages in 4 months, am i stupid to try again so soon?

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Shell050480 · 29/05/2012 19:25

Hi,
I suffered a misarriage end of feb at 7 weeks baby just stopped growing, fell pregnant really quick after last miscarriage, and at epu discovered that the gestational sac had detached slightly causing a bleed but baby had strong heartbeat, thought everything would be fine, however went back for scan 2 weeks later and there was no heartbeat, in the middle of miscarriage now, but feel so empty and so desperately want a baby, hospital have told me to wait 3 months to try again but docs said sooner the better, i know my heart is ruling my head just getting such conflicting advice, and was wondering if any of you had some real experience, thanks :( x

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tasmaniandevilchaser · 29/05/2012 21:14

So sorry for your losses, hope that this mc is done with quickly and as painlessly as possible.

I tried again straight away after my MMC - they say you are more fertile. I would agree with that. The only thing I would say is that make sure you are strong enough to deal with whatever comes, as you know, it's not always good news Sad. Fx for you x

Gumby · 29/05/2012 21:16

So sorry Sad

How old are you?

If there is no rush I'd try & wait for 3 months tbh

You need time to come to terms with your loss too xxx

Shell050480 · 29/05/2012 21:40

Thanks for your responses, im 32 and didnt realise how much i wanted another baby until i got pregnant, and to see a heartbeat and then nothing has been heartbreaking and so hard to deal with, i just feel empty and i feel like i need to be pregnant, but also so scared of it happening again,

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