I believe I started perimenopause shortly after my mum died 10 years ago at 39 my periods were still regular but much heavier. Hot flushes, brain fog (still have that) and god my joints ache! Went to GP they offered me the coil and antidepressants so I went privately but I just couldn’t tolerate HRT. The last 2 cycles have been mostly just brown spotting except for one day last time when I had heavy bleeding. This time I started 5 days before my period was due it lasted a week but nothing that I’d describe as a proper period. Is it likely that they’ll stop altogether soon or am I about to experience the mother of all periods?