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Day 364

9 replies

AnotherYearToGo · 01/11/2025 17:39

Day 364 and my period starts : {

So close!

This seems most unfair and I would like to know how to lodge a complaint or appeal the situation (light-hearted)

OP posts:
bugalugs45 · 01/11/2025 17:40

Ouch ! My friend went 10 months and thought she was home & dry ( excuse the pun !)

AnotherYearToGo · 01/11/2025 17:41

Yeah, had gone 9 months before my last one and was pretty annoyed then!

OP posts:
StillCreatingAName · 01/11/2025 21:06

Oh can you believe that OP. Surely it counts as menopause if more months without than with and one day short of a full year

…and here I am searching MN tonight for advice as I’m now on day 40, no bleed for nearly two cycles, the longest stretch I’ve gone and thought I might feel good for it, but I feel horrendous, quite swollen/puffy all over and my mood is so very low. I’ve avoided the family most of today as I feel like I’m might cry for no explainable reason, but not angry as though I’m about to start a period.
Do things lift a bit the longer you go on without- or can it be like this for a while, in your experience of 364 days @AnotherYearToGo ?

MaggieBsBoat · 01/11/2025 21:07

Omg!!! I opened this thread now I’m worried that I’ve tempted fate. I’m on day 300.

AnotherYearToGo · 01/11/2025 22:21

StillCreatingAName · 01/11/2025 21:06

Oh can you believe that OP. Surely it counts as menopause if more months without than with and one day short of a full year

…and here I am searching MN tonight for advice as I’m now on day 40, no bleed for nearly two cycles, the longest stretch I’ve gone and thought I might feel good for it, but I feel horrendous, quite swollen/puffy all over and my mood is so very low. I’ve avoided the family most of today as I feel like I’m might cry for no explainable reason, but not angry as though I’m about to start a period.
Do things lift a bit the longer you go on without- or can it be like this for a while, in your experience of 364 days @AnotherYearToGo ?

Sorry, I had a few years of just skipping a month or two

OP posts:
Autumnlife · 02/11/2025 23:03

This happened to me too mine was light bleeding and lasted a good six weeks. A similar thing happened to my sister’s too and a friend went a whole year then had an extremely heavy one and noticed since.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 03/11/2025 07:46

Oh that is rubbish!
Good luck with the next 365 days!

Mollydoggerson · 04/11/2025 12:30

I went 6 months without one, then really sore boobs, massive cold sore and a week long bleed, quite sore, all the usual complaints.

That was a month ago, no bleed this month, but achey body, tired, washed out, dry burning lips, I can feel a tingle at the site of a previous, very painful cold sore. I m pumping the lycene into me. Hopefully it won't erupt. I m having a cycle but there is no lining to shed.

I expect I ll build up a tiny amount of lining over the next few months. Possibly will have a few more bleeds before the ovaries completely shrivel up and pack it in. I m 46 🙄🙄.

I m noticing more wrinkles, fine lines and dry, dry hair. A delight.

Andtheworldwentwhite · 06/11/2025 11:14

Oh no!!!! That is totally rubbish. I’m so sorry!!!

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